{"id":155835,"date":"2023-06-06T10:37:16","date_gmt":"2023-06-06T08:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/?p=155835"},"modified":"2025-12-19T11:26:49","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T10:26:49","slug":"first-generation-student-romy-owes-her-parents-a-lot-im-so-lucky-to-have-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/2023\/06\/06\/first-generation-student-romy-owes-her-parents-a-lot-im-so-lucky-to-have-you\/","title":{"rendered":"First-generation student Romy owes her parents a lot. \u2018I\u2019m so lucky to have you\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Romy didn\u2019t mind that her parents didn\u2019t know much about the university or her degree programme. After all, they were supporting her in so many other ways. \u201cI\u2019m lucky I was born into this family.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-1600x1067.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-155837\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-1600x1067.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 1600w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-875x583.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 875w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-300x200.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 300w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-1280x854.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 1280w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-1536x1024.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 1536w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-2048x1366.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 2048w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-150x100.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 150w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/05142526\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-1_3000_Levien-Willemse-scaled-2-225x150.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139331 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><p><span>Romy is the first one in her family to go to university. &quot;I never felt you guys were pushing me in any particular direction.&quot;<\/span><\/p> <p data-component=\"image-credits\" class=\"flex flex-wrap gap-2 items-center text-base\">\n\t<span aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<path d=\"M19.5 5.25H16.9012L15.6234 3.33375C15.555 3.23114 15.4623 3.147 15.3535 3.08879C15.2448 3.03057 15.1233 3.00007 15 3H9C8.87665 3.00007 8.75522 3.03057 8.64648 3.08879C8.53773 3.147 8.44502 3.23114 8.37656 3.33375L7.09781 5.25H4.5C3.90326 5.25 3.33097 5.48705 2.90901 5.90901C2.48705 6.33097 2.25 6.90326 2.25 7.5V18C2.25 18.5967 2.48705 19.169 2.90901 19.591C3.33097 20.0129 3.90326 20.25 4.5 20.25H19.5C20.0967 20.25 20.669 20.0129 21.091 19.591C21.5129 19.169 21.75 18.5967 21.75 18V7.5C21.75 6.90326 21.5129 6.33097 21.091 5.90901C20.669 5.48705 20.0967 5.25 19.5 5.25ZM15.375 12.375C15.375 13.0425 15.1771 13.695 14.8062 14.25C14.4354 14.8051 13.9083 15.2376 13.2916 15.4931C12.6749 15.7485 11.9963 15.8154 11.3416 15.6852C10.6869 15.5549 10.0855 15.2335 9.61351 14.7615C9.14151 14.2895 8.82007 13.6881 8.68985 13.0334C8.55962 12.3787 8.62646 11.7001 8.88191 11.0834C9.13735 10.4667 9.56993 9.93964 10.125 9.56879C10.68 9.19794 11.3325 9 12 9C12.8951 9 13.7535 9.35558 14.3865 9.98851C15.0194 10.6214 15.375 11.4799 15.375 12.375Z\" fill=\"currentColor\"\/>\n<\/svg>\n<\/span>\n\t<span class=\"sr-only\">Image by:<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t<span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/persons\/levien-willemse\/\" class=\"underline hocus:no-underline decoration-1 underline-offset-2\">Levien Willemse<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Romy van Leeuwen (27) is sitting on the couch with one leg up as she relaxes in the home of her parents Peter van Leeuwen (58) and Wendy van Leeuwen (57). There\u2019s a portrait photo of her and her sister on the cupboard. Romy is an education specialist at Risbo and has been living just around the corner in Krimpen aan den IJssel for several years now. During her time as a Psychology student, she lived with her parents. It was nice at home, and it was close to university, she explains.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Curious<\/h2><p>University was an unfamiliar world for her parents, who didn\u2019t pursue higher education themselves. \u201cI remember you taking me to the open days\u201d, Romy tells her parents. \u201cI loved that you just tagged along everywhere. But what was it like for you guys to come along to university?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/posts-list\" >\n\t\t\n\t\t<div class=\"space-y-6 md:space-y-8\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"text-lg md:text-xl\">Lees meer<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<ul class=\"grid items-strecth grid-cols-1 gap-2 md:gap-4 lg:gap-8\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"@container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<div data-component=\"teaser-post-small\" class=\"block-theme-sand  relative flex h-full bg-sand-300\n\tblock-theme-violet:bg-white block-theme-violet:text-purple block-theme-mocha:bg-sand-500 block-theme-mocha:text-brown\n\tblock-theme-sand:bg-sand-300 block-theme-sand:text-neutral-900\n\tblock-theme-violet:outline-purple-100 block-theme-violet:outline-1 block-theme-violet:outline-t-0\n\ttheme-mocha:bg-white! theme-violet:bg-white! theme-sand:bg-white!\n\tflex-row gap-4 @md:gap-8 p-4 @md:p-6\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"image:w-full image:aspect-square image:object-cover shrink-0 size-17.5 @sm:size-21.25 @md:size-30 @lg:size-40\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"460\" height=\"325\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-scaled.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330\" class=\"attachment-square_lg size-square_lg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-scaled.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 2560w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-875x619.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 875w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-1600x1131.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 1600w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-300x212.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 300w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-1280x905.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 1280w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-1536x1086.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 1536w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-2048x1448.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 2048w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-150x106.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 150w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/06\/01122146\/Parents-of-first-generation-students-1-eerste-generatie-studenten_3000_Migle-Alonderyte-225x159.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\n\t<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-2 md:gap-4 \">\n\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"text-md @lg:text-lg\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/2023\/06\/05\/a-great-deal-of-pride-and-a-little-apprehension-thats-what-its-like-to-be-a-parent-of-a-first-generation-student\/\" class=\"absolute-link text-current hocus:underline inline-block\">\n\t\t\t\tA great deal of pride \u2013 and a little apprehension. That&#8217;s what it&#8217;s like to be a parent of a first-generation student\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n\n\t\t<div class=\"flex flex-wrap gap-4 items-center\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"sr-only\">Gepubliceerd op:<\/span>\n\t\t\t<time class=\"text-sm font-soehne text-neutral-900\" datetime=\"2023-06-05\">5 June 2023<\/time>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<ul data-component=\"list-badges\" class=\"flex items-center gap-2 flex-wrap\" aria-label=\"Geplaatst in categorie\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<li>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div data-component=\"badge\" class=\"block-theme-violet:bg-purple font-soehne font-bold text-sm bg-brown-600 block-theme-violet:bg-purple text-white py-[2px] px-2\">\n\t\t\t\t\tStudent life\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<p>\u201cI was fine with it as long as I no one talked to me\u201d, Wendy says. \u201cI\u2019m always afraid I\u2019ll say something stupid.\u201d As a child, she grew up thinking she wasn\u2019t smart. Although she did well at school, she was sent to domestic science school, where teachers would tell her she only had to learn how to cook and take care of the children. Her parents didn\u2019t encourage her to continue her studies either, so after finishing domestic science school she started working in a clothing shop. She\u2019s been a stay-at-home mother since the birth of her first child, Romy\u2019s sister. \u201cStill, I\u2019ve always been curious about what happens at university.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was mainly curious what kinds of jobs specific degree programmes prepared you for\u201d, Peter explains. He studied Aeronautical Engineering at senior secondary technical school and now works at a grid operator, where he attends and teaches many courses at higher professional education level. \u201cWe felt it was important for you to pick a degree programme that would help you find a job\u201d, Wendy adds. \u201cI never went to university myself, so I think all degree programmes are interesting and it\u2019s great if you get a diploma in the first place. Still, you also need to look to the future.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure data-wp-context=\"{&quot;imageId&quot;:&quot;6a0770c471953&quot;}\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/image\" data-wp-key=\"6a0770c471953\" class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-lightbox-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-wp-class--hide=\"state.isContentHidden\" data-wp-class--show=\"state.isContentVisible\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.showLightbox\" data-wp-on--load=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" data-wp-on-window--resize=\"callbacks.setButtonStyles\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2023\/05\/31103918\/Romy-van-Leeuwen-eerste-generatie-studenten-2_3000_Levien-Willemse.-scaled.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139330\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-155507\" 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any degree programme she wanted. \u201cI never felt you guys were pushing me in any particular direction\u201d, she says. \u201cDid you have any programme in mind that you thought would suit me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wendy: \u201cYou actually told us you wanted to study Criminology early on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s right\u201d, Romy interrupts with a laugh. \u201cBecause I watched too many detective series with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her parents nod smiling. \u201cCriminology also seemed really interesting and a lot of fun\u201d, Wendy continues. \u201cI thought I could piggyback onto your studies a bit and learn some things along the way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/quote\" class=\"align\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"\">\n\t\t\t<figure data-component=\"quote-with-author\" class=\"@container\">\n\t<blockquote class=\"text-md italic @2xl:text-xl @4xl:text-2xl text-purple\">\n\t\t\u2018Because you explained what you were reading a lot of the time, I gradually learned what it was all 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I enjoyed that\u2019\n\t<\/blockquote>\n\n\t<\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<p>But after attending a disappointing taster lecture on Criminology with her father, she opted for the bachelor\u2019s programme in Psychology followed by the master\u2019s programme in Human Learning and Performance. \u201cDid you have a sense of what my degree programme was all about?\u201d she asks. Peter: \u201cWe found that out along the way by looking over your shoulder.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe talked a lot together\u201d, Wendy says. \u201cYou sat at the dining table downstairs rather than staying in your little room. Because you explained what you were reading a lot of the time, I gradually learned what it was all about. I enjoyed that.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Lots of time at home<\/h2><p>At first, Romy\u2019s parents didn\u2019t have a clear picture of her on-campus life. \u201cI never had any experience with university, so I had to learn all about it from you\u201d, Wendy says. \u201cBut it never seemed like you were spending much time at university, to be honest. I liked it though, you were learning a lot at home.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/quote\" class=\"align\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"\">\n\t\t\t<figure data-component=\"quote-with-author\" class=\"@container\">\n\t<blockquote class=\"text-md italic @2xl:text-xl @4xl:text-2xl text-purple\">\n\t\t\u2018If you were panicking because you didn\u2019t understand something, like statistics, I\u2019d also feel panicked\u2019\n\t<\/blockquote>\n\n\t<\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s true\u201d, Romy agrees. \u201cI\u2019ve never been the kind of person who wanted to join a student association or anything like that. I only found out about associations when I started studying. I guess it\u2019s different if your parents did go to university. But I thought: why should I join one of those? I just want to learn!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI do kind of regret not going to Eureka Week. I didn\u2019t really know what it was\u201d, Romy explains. \u201cIf I had a child that was going to university, I\u2019d tell them: you should do that, it\u2019s fun!\u201d Wendy: \u201cWe might have been able to tell you that if we\u2019d gone to university.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Frustration<\/h2><p>Romy\u2019s parents occasionally felt frustrated that they couldn\u2019t help her with her studies. \u201cIf you were panicking because you didn\u2019t understand something, like statistics, I\u2019d also feel panicked\u201d, Wendy explains. \u201cI\u2019d be thinking: dammit, why can\u2019t I help her? That made me a bit sad at the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt some point, you were so far along in the degree programme that we couldn\u2019t help you anymore. It\u2019s also a completely different field\u201d, Peter adds. \u201cAlso, I didn\u2019t have enough time to delve into the statistics textbook. That felt a bit frustrating.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/quote\" class=\"align\" >\n\t\t<div class=\"\">\n\t\t\t<figure data-component=\"quote-with-author\" class=\"@container\">\n\t<blockquote class=\"text-md italic @2xl:text-xl @4xl:text-2xl text-purple\">\n\t\t\u2018You helped me simply by listening\u2019\n\t<\/blockquote>\n\n\t<\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t always have to know how everything works, that\u2019s just not possible\u201d, Romy says. \u201cYou\u2019ve always supported me in so many other ways.\u201d She remembers her mother helping her cram for an examination at the dinner table. \u201cI\u2019d give you a list of terms so you could quiz me\u201d, she says. Wendy: \u201cIt didn\u2019t matter whether I understood them or not.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Romy would also regularly explain what she had learned. \u201cWe\u2019d go for a sandwich together at lunchtime and I\u2019d talk about a patient case study I\u2019d just read.\u201d \u201cYou learn things more effectively if you have to explain them to another person. You helped me simply by listening.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was interesting to hear about those cases\u201d, Wendy says. \u201cI\u2019d have liked to have studied something like you did, something to do with helping people.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Luck<\/h2><p>Her father wasn\u2019t home as much because of his work, but read both her theses. \u201cI remember you didn\u2019t entirely understand my master\u2019s thesis, but you still read it all the way through and checked the spelling\u201d, Romy adds.<\/p>\n<p>Peter: \u201cI enjoyed seeing what you\u2019d been working on all this time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd seeing what you\u2019d been paying for all those years!\u201d Romy jokes. \u201cI don\u2019t have any student debt thanks to you guys, which is great.\u201d Wendy: \u201cWe started living on less because we wanted to make sure you could start your career without any debt.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m lucky I was born into this family,\u201d Romy says. \u201cI\u2019m so lucky to have you. You may not have gone to university, but you helped me get an education by motivating me and supporting me financially. You need to work hard at university, but it\u2019s also a matter of luck.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/posts-list\" >\n\t\t\n\t\t<div class=\"space-y-6 md:space-y-8\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"text-lg md:text-xl\">Read more<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<ul class=\"grid items-strecth grid-cols-1 gap-2 md:gap-4 lg:gap-8\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"@container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<div data-component=\"teaser-post-small\" class=\"block-theme-sand  relative flex h-full bg-sand-300\n\tblock-theme-violet:bg-white block-theme-violet:text-purple block-theme-mocha:bg-sand-500 block-theme-mocha:text-brown\n\tblock-theme-sand:bg-sand-300 block-theme-sand:text-neutral-900\n\tblock-theme-violet:outline-purple-100 block-theme-violet:outline-1 block-theme-violet:outline-t-0\n\ttheme-mocha:bg-white! theme-violet:bg-white! theme-sand:bg-white!\n\tflex-row gap-4 @md:gap-8 p-4 @md:p-6\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"image:w-full image:aspect-square image:object-cover shrink-0 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href=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/2026\/05\/13\/achtbaan-bij-it-tijdens-canvas-crisis-alle-alarmbellen-gingen-rinkelen\/\" class=\"absolute-link text-current hocus:underline inline-block\">\n\t\t\t\tRollercoaster for IT during Canvas crisis: &#8216;That is when all the alarm bells went off&#8217;\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h3>\n\n\t\t<div class=\"flex flex-wrap gap-4 items-center\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"sr-only\">Gepubliceerd op:<\/span>\n\t\t\t<time class=\"text-sm font-soehne text-neutral-900\" datetime=\"2026-05-13\">13 May 2026<\/time>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<ul data-component=\"list-badges\" class=\"flex items-center gap-2 flex-wrap\" aria-label=\"Geplaatst in categorie\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<li>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div data-component=\"badge\" class=\"block-theme-violet:bg-purple font-soehne font-bold text-sm bg-brown-600 block-theme-violet:bg-purple text-white py-[2px] px-2\">\n\t\t\t\t\tCampus\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t<li>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div data-component=\"badge\" 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src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/18-2026-Erasmus-School-of-Economics-Joseph-Popolo-Mirjamlemsfotografie-_DSC0912-scaled-1280x720.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1778670663\" class=\"attachment-video_xl size-video_xl\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/18-2026-Erasmus-School-of-Economics-Joseph-Popolo-Mirjamlemsfotografie-_DSC0912-scaled-1280x720.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1778670663 1280w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/18-2026-Erasmus-School-of-Economics-Joseph-Popolo-Mirjamlemsfotografie-_DSC0912-scaled-500x282.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1778670663 500w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/18-2026-Erasmus-School-of-Economics-Joseph-Popolo-Mirjamlemsfotografie-_DSC0912-scaled-832x468.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1778670663 832w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\n\t<div 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