{"id":1373,"date":"2016-12-12T10:38:05","date_gmt":"2016-12-12T09:38:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/?p=63341\/"},"modified":"2025-12-19T11:22:06","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T10:22:06","slug":"jezelf-ontwikkelen-doet-pijn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/2016\/12\/12\/jezelf-ontwikkelen-doet-pijn\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Personal development is a painful process\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1152\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09222932\/Rob-de-Winter-2-Medium.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139099\" alt=\"Door een paar keer goed zijn kop te stoten, leerde Rob de Winter, luitenant-kolonel bij de Koninklijke Luchtmacht, snel het geheim van leidinggeven: geef je mensen je vertrouwen.\" class=\"wp-image-63118\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09222932\/Rob-de-Winter-2-Medium.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139099 1152w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09222932\/Rob-de-Winter-2-Medium-875x583.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139099 875w, https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09222932\/Rob-de-Winter-2-Medium-300x200.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139099 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1152px) 100vw, 1152px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><p><span>Door een paar keer goed zijn kop te stoten, leerde Rob de Winter snel goed leidinggeven.<\/span><\/p> <p data-component=\"image-credits\" class=\"flex flex-wrap gap-2 items-center text-base\">\n\t<span aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<path d=\"M19.5 5.25H16.9012L15.6234 3.33375C15.555 3.23114 15.4623 3.147 15.3535 3.08879C15.2448 3.03057 15.1233 3.00007 15 3H9C8.87665 3.00007 8.75522 3.03057 8.64648 3.08879C8.53773 3.147 8.44502 3.23114 8.37656 3.33375L7.09781 5.25H4.5C3.90326 5.25 3.33097 5.48705 2.90901 5.90901C2.48705 6.33097 2.25 6.90326 2.25 7.5V18C2.25 18.5967 2.48705 19.169 2.90901 19.591C3.33097 20.0129 3.90326 20.25 4.5 20.25H19.5C20.0967 20.25 20.669 20.0129 21.091 19.591C21.5129 19.169 21.75 18.5967 21.75 18V7.5C21.75 6.90326 21.5129 6.33097 21.091 5.90901C20.669 5.48705 20.0967 5.25 19.5 5.25ZM15.375 12.375C15.375 13.0425 15.1771 13.695 14.8062 14.25C14.4354 14.8051 13.9083 15.2376 13.2916 15.4931C12.6749 15.7485 11.9963 15.8154 11.3416 15.6852C10.6869 15.5549 10.0855 15.2335 9.61351 14.7615C9.14151 14.2895 8.82007 13.6881 8.68985 13.0334C8.55962 12.3787 8.62646 11.7001 8.88191 11.0834C9.13735 10.4667 9.56993 9.93964 10.125 9.56879C10.68 9.19794 11.3325 9 12 9C12.8951 9 13.7535 9.35558 14.3865 9.98851C15.0194 10.6214 15.375 11.4799 15.375 12.375Z\" fill=\"currentColor\"\/>\n<\/svg>\n<\/span>\n\t<span class=\"sr-only\">Image by:<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t<span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/persons\/anna-mazur\/\" class=\"underline hocus:no-underline decoration-1 underline-offset-2\">Anna Mazur<\/a>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure><p>Where do Erasmus University students end up? In this section, graduates share their stories about their career and life: what have they learned along the way? In passing, they\u2019ll give you a few tips about the dos and don\u2019ts in building your career.<\/p>\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/featured-text\" class=\"md:mt-6 p-4 md:p-6 lg:p-8 bg-sand-300 theme-sand:bg-white theme-violet:bg-white theme-mocha:bg-white wysiwyg *:last:mb-0!\" >\n\t\t<p>Rob de Winter (55)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Study:<\/strong>\u00a0Master\u2019s in Public Administration (2007-2009)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Current job:<\/strong>\u00a0SAP Project manager at the Ministry of Defence: an integrated business operations system that supports multiple processes, including logistics, technical maintenance, and financial processes. \u201cI\u2019ve been working with SAP at the Air Force since 2006. I\u2019m now fine-tuning the system to prepare it for implementation at the other three organisational elements at the Ministry of Defence. Half of my time is spent doing this work as a working foreman and the remainder of my time is spent on managing a team of 29 people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Career path:<\/strong>\u00a0Following his study at a school for higher education in economics and management, De Winter joined the Air Force in 1983. Because of his higher education background, he became a training officer after about a year and held a command position by his mid-twenties. At the Ministry of Defence, employees change jobs every three years. This meant a number of different positions at various departments until he was deployed to Kandahar Airfield in Afghanistan. There, his team of almost 100 people was responsible for a number of tasks including the medical service, supplies, and communications.<\/p>\n\n\t<\/div>\n<p><strong>Painful mistakes<br>\n<\/strong>\u201cThe Ministry of Defence immediately puts officers in charge of a group. You simply have to get on with it and that\u2019s to the organisation\u2019s credit. After you make a few painful mistakes, you quickly develop leadership qualities. I still remember what it was like to be in my mid-twenties and commanding a group of men, some of whom had much more experience than me. I quickly learned the secret of leadership: have faith in the group. As a manager, your most important task is to create a good group dynamic. I was able to successfully do this during my mission in Afghanistan, thanks to the professionalism of colleagues. My duties went smoothly and even though it was an important mission, I quite enjoyed my five months there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Am I doing it right?<\/strong><br>\nIt\u2019s part of a good manager\u2019s nature to always look for ways to improve. That includes one\u2019s own performance. After every meeting or situation I still ask myself: Did I do it right? Could I have done better? I am deeply aware of the fact that every decision affects a person <em>and<\/em> that person\u2019s family.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNow that I think about it, perhaps I could have stood up for my people more often. That\u2019s why I\u2019ll continue to learn by stepping out of my comfort zone. That can be scary and it\u2019s not always fun, but personal development is a painful process.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-component=core\/image><figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-thumbnail is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09222930\/Rob-de-Winter-Medium-300x300.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139098\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-63116\"\/><\/figure><\/div><p><strong>More confidence thanks to my study<br>\n<\/strong>\u201cI deliberately chose to study at Erasmus University. Even though I was promoted to Lieutenant Colonel after the mission, at that time I still felt I needed a more solid theoretical foundation. During the Master\u2019s in Public Administration, some of the things I learned were to approach things more analytically and to better express myself in writing. That boosted my self-confidence so I can perform effectively at this level.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cherry on the cake<br>\n<\/strong>\u201cThe Ministry of Defence is a microcosm of outside world. All disciplines are found here, such as HR, finance, engineering, ICT, or process improvement. Back then, as now, this makes the organisation an interesting employer. The rank hierarchy also makes it a transparent organisation. Everyone knows their place. This is crucial when decisions have to be made quickly in a crisis situation.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that I\u2019ve attained this rank is the cherry on the cake. As a rookie, my goal was the rank of Major, but I\u2019ve gone one step higher.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\t<div data-name=\"acf\/persons\" class=\"mt-6 md:mt-8 lg:mt-10\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"sr-only\">De redactie<\/h2>\n\t\t\n\t\t<div class=\"space-y-6\">\n\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<ul class=\"grid grid-cols-1 md:grid-cols-2 gap-4 md:gap-8 md:items-center\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div data-component=\"teaser-person\" class=\"relative flex gap-4 items-center md:gap-8\">\n\n\t\t\t<span class=\"image:rounded-full image:size-20 image:aspect-square image:object-cover md:image:size-36 shrink-0\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"324\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erasmusmagazine.nl\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2017\/05\/09192241\/Lindemarie-28web.jpg?image-crop-positioner-ts=1766139037\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" 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